Essays

What a nightmare flight taught me

I'm learning to chill out a little.

Aug 21 •

Ayana Gabrielle Lage

The beauty of boredom

Learning to embrace it.

Jul 31 •

Ayana Gabrielle Lage

I wish this wasn't so hard

Why can't I be neutral about my body?

Jul 10 •

Ayana Gabrielle Lage

Optimists have all the fun

Trying (and failing) to be more positive.

Jun 19 •

Ayana Gabrielle Lage

It takes so much work to function

To have a normal life

May 15 •

Ayana Gabrielle Lage

My tattoos tell a story

Just not the one I expected.

May 8 •

Ayana Gabrielle Lage

I've been making the bed less

And I'm trying to be okay with it.

Apr 24 •

Ayana Gabrielle Lage

Sometimes, you get married too young

And it somehow works out

Mar 27 •

Ayana Gabrielle Lage

In defense of the crying selfie

Maybe attention isn't so bad.

Mar 20 •

Ayana Gabrielle Lage

What our profiles don't show

The behind-the-scenes of it all

Mar 14 •

Ayana Gabrielle Lage

Just take the compliment

Learning to trust other people's kind words.

Feb 20 •

Ayana Gabrielle Lage

The only place I've known.

Feb 6 •

Ayana Gabrielle Lage

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